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[ashleyeb93]

Okay, so here's the deal. My Uncle asked me to take pictures at his Wedding. And I am terrified. I am just a hobbyist, and still taking everything in, and learning. He says that he is going to have a professional photographer there too, but only for an hour. All I could think was, "Oh my goodness, I am going to be an Uncle Bob" (well, I guess it would be Aunt Bobina, in my case). So I told him to double super duper triple make sure it was okay with the photographer if I take pictures too. He says the photographer is fine with it, but I don't want to step on any toes, or anything like that. So, should I still take pictures? Or should I politely decline? And if I should, what is some helpful advice for wedding photography? Like, what should I wear, it is on the beach, what should I look out for, anything in particular. Any and all help is greatly appreciated!!!

[ryan daley]

Crazy. Over 1000 views to your post and no one answered.

To your question. At first I would said to respectfully decline. When I shoot weddings there is nothing more annoying than people with their DSLR's getting the way and diverting the attention of the bride and groom or wedding party. You are wise enough to ask him to ask the photographer. That is key. And in that they said yes, then I am thinking the photographer knows you know not to get in the way and understands photography enough for you to know to ask the photographer.

I would say go with your gut. And if anything, take your camera with you. If you feel awkward or feel like you are stepping on toes then just stop. Knowing that you will be looking out to not step on toes though I think you will be fine.

Advice on wedding photography: Pretend you aren't shooting a wedding. I know that sounds weird, but the less you think about what the event is and let yourself be lost in the moments the better your photos will show the day and not so much a bunch of photos you "think" you should get. It is what sets good wedding photographers apart from boring ones.

Shooting beach weddings can be tricky depending on the day. The first wedding on shot was by the ocean at high noon in San Diego. KILLER harsh sun. Since you would be technically 2nd shooting. If the sun is low enough or late enough in the day...find an angle that puts the bride and groom with the sun behind them. That is unless the other photographer has the postion already of course.

And for what to wear. Its a beach wedding. nice but casual usually works out.

[ashleyeb93]

Finally! Someone answered me! I had given up! Haha, but thank you so much for your advice. I really appreciate all of it. I have no way in telling if my Uncle asked the photographer or not, as he said, and I quote "I will fire him if he cocks attitude with you" Which I so way totally do NOT want to happen!!!!!!! So, I am going to take my camera, and talk with the photographer first. Maybe say something along the lines of this.... " I know your the hired photographer, I also was asked to take photos, but I promise I wont get in your way. And If I do let me know and I will move" I just seriously do not want to step on his toes, and I will definitely keep your advice in mind.

[digibob]

As suggested, be the second shooter. If the professional is creating posed images of the bridal party, why not stand to the side and get close ups of the bridal party. Shoot lots of detail shots such as shells in the sand and any decorations available. If you approach the event as a journalist type of shoot and allow the professional to do his work, you will probably capture some great moments. If you can capture some emotional moments before and after wedding, that would really be a great bonus for everyone. Good luck and good shooting! Have fun.

[ashleyeb93]

Thank you! I really appreciate your advice!